Tipping Your Vendors

Brides, here's a quick reminder about a super important topic: tipping your vendors! 

Something we get asked by many of our Barn Brides: should I tip my vendors? And if so, how much? In short, this is what we tell them: if you're happy with the services provided, by all means, tip! Here's a quick summary of who you should tip, how much and when (as well as a few photos from weddings at The Barn that have nothing to do with tipping!). 

BnBauman Photography, from Alyssa + Matt's wedding at The Barn

BnBauman Photography, from Alyssa + Matt's wedding at The Barn

For your caterer, you should tip between 17 and 20 percent of your catering allowance. (If you're spending $1,000 on your catering, tip somewhere between $170 and $200.) Tip your servers and bartenders, as well. Wedding experts recommend tipping $20 to $25 per server or bartender.  Tipping your DJ or musician is also a good idea. Experts recommend tipping $20 to $25 per musician, or $50 to $100 for a DJ. At The Barn, we're happy to take care of these things for you, so you don't have to worry about it on your big day. You can give cash or a check to your planner on the day of your wedding, and they will pass it along. Or we can include your tip amounts on your final bill, so you won't have to think about it after that. Our job is to make your wedding day easy and completely stress-free!

Tryston Hines Photography, from Breanna + Bryan's wedding at The Barn

Tryston Hines Photography, from Breanna + Bryan's wedding at The Barn

Just as you would in a salon, tip your hair stylist and makeup artist 15 to 20 percent, depending on how satisfied you were with their service. The best time to tip: after they finish your hair or makeup! 

Another important person to tip: your officiant. Ministers make nothing (or practically nothing) when they officiate a wedding. You should be prepared to pay for their lodging or give them a nice tip. If your minister is from a specific church, consider making a donation to their church. For a nondenominational minister, a $50 to $100 tip is plenty. Many couples completely forget to tip their minister, but it's an absolute must!

Photos by Manda, from Paige + Dorian's wedding at The Barn

Photos by Manda, from Paige + Dorian's wedding at The Barn

Many of our brides choose to tip their wedding planner, or give them a nice gift. This isn't a necessity, but it sure is a nice gesture that lets our planners know how much you appreciated their hard work! When you've had time to chill out after your wedding and honeymoon, consider sending your wedding planner a tip or gift. These ladies work incredibly hard to make your day perfect, and if you ask me, they totally deserve to be shown some love!

Barn Brides, if you ever have questions about tipping, don't hesitate to ask our team! That's what we're here for. :)

On a totally unrelated note, by popular demand, we've created a Facebook album full of color boards from a whole bunch of gorgeous weddings at The Barn. If you're planning your wedding and you're in need of some color palette inspiration, be sure to check out this album! Here's a little sneak peek:

Aren't they gorgeous?! Check them all out! And while you're at it, follow us on Pinterest, because you'll be seeing them there, too. :)

xoxo,
Kelsi